The road to teaching your toddler to ski can feel quite daunting – but we’re here to give you the shortcut to teaching your toddler how to ski in 3 days (or less). If you haven’t already, check out our best ski gear for toddlers list (+ other tips) that focuses on how to best prepare your little one before heading out to the slopes. Once you’re ready to go on the mountain, continue reading this article for our 3-day guide on teaching your toddler how to ski.

PSA: Magic Carpet is a MUST! 

We once made the mistake of finding a small bunny hill without a magic carpet – and it was a total nightmare. It's not easy for your little one to walk in the ski boots (at first), and your toddler becomes extremely heavy to carry with all their equipment on. Don't tire yourself going up the hill. You'll be exhausted, impatient, and have zero desire to repeat the up-down journey. Magic carpets are truly magical, and kids find it super fun to get automatically transported up. We tried a hill with a magic carpet the following day, and it made a HUGE difference – we got way more runs in, and our little one had fun going down AND up that day. 

Effortless go up the hill on the magic carpet

Day 1: Introducing the fun and joy of skiing (and learning how to stand independently)

The first day should be all about introducing the “idea” of skiing to your little one – it’ll be a day full of new things! Putting on all the equipment (the first time will always be your hardest, especially getting those boots on – make sure they step all the way down!). Riding up the magic carpet. Going down the hill with you. 

2025 UPDATE: Pick a small hill. Usually, there's a flat-ish area right before the magic carpet where first-time skiiers will practice. The toughest part for your little one will be balancing on their skis – it’s an extremely unnatural feeling! The biggest mistake is finding a "hill" that is too steep for them to stay up on their skis. Ideally, the first hill that they try to ski on is relatively flat as it requires VERY little to start moving forward on skis. 

The first mistake I made with our oldest child is that I held him during the first few runs, with the idea that he could experience the thrill of going down the ski hill quickly. The problem is that they quickly become reliant on you, and you'll need to teach them to stand independently after a few runs. 

Instead, it's better to start slow + standing on their own, rather than going fast + holding them. Kids naturally want to stand up by themselves, and they'll eventually learn more quickly when they aren't relying on you (or other equipment like a harness). That's why a super small hill is the best starting point as it'll allow your little one to confidently stand up while moving forward on their skis. 

My four biggest tips for Day 1: 

1. Pick a small (tiny!) hill. It's better to start slow + standing on their own, rather than going fast + holding them. Kids naturally want to stand up by themselves, and they'll eventually learn more quickly when they aren't relying on you (or other equipment like a harness).
2. An edgie wedgie (linked in our best ski gear list for toddlers) will play a big role in helping keep their skis together so that they keep standing up. 
3. Teach them to bend their knees and have them "bounce" on their skis so that they're used to moving their legs while on skis. We also use vocabulary like "stand like a tall tree" to make sure they're using their legs. 
4. Normalize falling! You can give falling a nickname like "doink". Whenever my son fell, I’d say he did a "doink" and we'd also talk about how falling on “snow” doesn’t (usually) hurt as it’s way softer than the playground and they’re wearing comfy snow pants. Ensuring that your child doesn’t have a fear of falling will go a long way! 

It’ll take some practice but eventually your little one will make the connection that standing will minimize the number of times they fall. The edgie wedgie will keep their ski tips together in a pizza formation, making it easier for them to stay balanced and in control.

If they do manage to balance on their skis at some point during the day, I’d make a BIG DEAL out of it. Celebrate it as a huge milestone (it is huge!) as it’s the first time where they’re skiing on their own – it’s that feeling of accomplishment, and desire to improve that will motivate them to keep going on this learning journey!

You might be out for 30 minutes on the actual hill. Maybe an hour. My only recommendation is to listen to your child – when they’re over it, and ready to go home, that means it’s time to pack it up (or snack time)! Just remember: even being out for a short amount of time is better than being at home all morning! Remember, your only goal on this day is to show your little one how fun skiing can be!

[BONUS] Before even starting Day 1, other things I did to prepare my son included: we watched videos of little kids skiing. We read books with kids skiing. We put on the boots a few times (they're super awkward for them!). It's a lot to take in, and exposing them early will reduce a lot of surprises.

Day 2: Teaching them how to “stop”

It’s totally okay if they don’t quite get how to balance on their skis just yet, but hopefully each time feels progressively easier (for your little one, AND you!). During the earlier parts of Day 2, you should be aiming for longer stretches of your little one successfully standing like a tall tree. 

If you’re feeling like they’re consistently standing tall on their skis, you can now start teaching them how to stop on their own. Learning how to stop is the most important skill for them to learn as it empowers them to ski on their own at whatever speed they’re comfortable with. Once they learn how to stop, they’re in full control.

A new term to introduce on Day 2 is “big legs”, and the accompanying action is to spread your legs wide into an exaggerated pizza shape. With the edgie wedgie, widening your legs apart will force the skis into a “wedge” (pizza) and will cause them to slow down to a stop. Before you are on the actual hill, try to practice the action of “big legs” without skis on so that they have the muscle memory to do it on the hill. 

You can aim to say “big legs” multiple times during the same run so that they’re comfortable stopping mid-hill. They may have an inclination to lean back and sit down to fully stop, but gently remind them that they don’t need to be on the ground to stop (and in fact, it’s actually easier if they don’t do that, because then they won’t need to get back up again). 

"BIG LEGS" -- Daniel at the top of his lungs

At the end of day 3, hopefully they’ve managed to experience stopping on their own. At that point, you can take the harness straps off and they can completely ski down a hill without your help! If you’ve made it this far, congratulations on creating a foundation for a lifelong love for skiing! 

Day 3: Teaching them how to "turn"

Once they've mastered how to stop using their skis, the last step is to learn how to turn. As they get more comfortable, one tendency is that they'll want to zoom straight down a hill from top to bottom... without any turns. While we've all seen these fearless daredevils on the mountain, we want to make sure you're teaching your kids how to have fun AND be safe.

The most effective way I've found to teaching them how to turn is to have them follow someone who is making wide turns down the hill. You'll typically start right in front of your child at the top of the mountain. As you start turning, you'll be further away to the left / right (depending on which way you turned). To get your child to follow you, you should ask them to "point" towards you with both hands. As they point towards you, it should pull their shoulders and torso towards your direction and naturally their skis will come towards you as well. 

If you can ski backwards, I've found it helpful to be in front of them as you go down, and as you turn, you can ask the question "Where's [insert whatever name they usually call you]?" Making that eye contact helps trigger that they're not in fact looking at you anymore after you've made your turn, and acts as another trigger to get them to move towards you. 

Why 3 days?

Skiing is supposed to be FUN! While it’s certainly possible to teach your kids to ski in fewer than 3 days, I think having the right expectations for your little one helps reduce the pressure. Often, I see parents keeping their children on the hill longer than they probably should, which leads to complete meltdowns and everyone leaving with a negative – possibly traumatizing (!!) – experience (i.e. nobody is having fun). By breaking it up into digestible goals each day, you’ll feel less pressure to cram everything in one day and hopefully you can leave feeling extremely satisfied with how each day went. 

Unlike my skiing days pre-kids, a successful ski day is no longer from 9AM to 4PM. If we’re out for an hour, that’s GREAT. 2 hours – even better! And if it’s less than that, no sweat. 

Positive Association

We try our best to limit sweets and other treats on a regular basis, but we loosen things up on ski days – in our case, it’s hot cocoa time! At the end of each ski morning, we’ll always go into the chalet and get a cup of hot chocolate, and it’s consistently such a great moment to just sit and chat. Our little one might be super excited about ski days mostly because of the hot chocolate… but hey, it works! 

What’s next?

This 3-day guide is meant for parent skiers of all skill levels, allowing you to teach your little one to ski independently down a bunny hill. At this point, they might have a head start and can enter ski lessons at a higher skill level (and hopefully save you some $$$ as ski lessons can be quite expensive!). The natural progression after this will look something like:

1. Mastering how to turn (S route down the hill)
2. Taking a chairlift 
3. Going down green runs
4. Going down blue runs
5. Etc.

If you’re interested in reading about these topics, let us know in the comments! We’re in the thick of the learning journey with our 5-year-old and (almost) 3-year-old, and we’re happy to continue sharing our tips and tricks with you all as the season progresses.